get the idea?

if smart people get what i wanna say, dont pretend to look smarter by correcting my grammar.

what matters is that people get my point. no need to be so grammatically perfect. smartaz!

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Motherhood

How hard motherhood is for me? Women have been doing this forever. Literally. And I have the advantages of disposable diapers, sippy cups, 7-11 and equal rights.

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I thought having a baby would be like having a pet - oh, this will be cute. We'll be this little family...

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I am constantly questioning my decisions.  It's hard. I have a great education. I have a great job. If I stay home with my child, I feel like, "Is this all there is?" and if I work, I feel consumed with guilt. So I end up feeling trapped, like I can't win.
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I want to talk about the good and bad sides of motherhood.  Because if I can talk honestly, perhaps I can lose the notion that I can and should do it all. And if I can lose that notion, then perhaps I can get a grip on my "insane expectations". And if I can get a grip on my insane expectations, perhaps I can stop judging myself and other moms, learn to say no when I need to, embrace my daily life, nurture myself and my husband and maybe, just maybe, relax and find peace. The ideal is to be true to myself, to make conscious choices based on my own value systems (and not others' expectations of me), and to live my life in ways that serve my own interests and those of my family. Only then can I begin to love motherhood as much as I love my son.

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excerpt from I was a Good Mom Before I had Kids

tagalog ingles

oo wrong grammar ako

sohuwaaaat

e di ikaw na best in english!

magtatagalog na lang ako


tse! lol

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God knows best for us

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price tag

you familiar with the song pricetag? i am always feeling positive when i hear the part where she sings "it's not about the money money money" lalala.... because eversince i got married, i have been financially conscious. most often than not i think about how will we survive with only some few pesos in my hand. i am always bothered. it is just Happy who pulls me back to my senses and reminds me that God will always always provide.

it has been almost a year now since we got married and look! we are still here. proof that even if i dont seem to have everything, i still have something. God will not leave me empty handed.

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bloggeroid

i am using bloggeroid! fun! now i can blog anywhere!

im happpppeeeh!!




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office, see you soon!

i will be going back to work in 2 weeks! i am so looking forward to go back to work. i need to help Happy in providing our son's needs. it has been a long 2 months of maternity leave and i believe i am ready to get dirty and start working again
thank God for everyday :)


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happy 1st month!

salamat sa Dios sa isang buwan nating pagsasama anak ko. sa mga gabing di tayo nakakatulog at sa mga araw na di rin tayo natutulog, ayos yan! haha tiis tiis lang. basta paglaki mo lagi mo kaming papasayahin at mamahalin. ingatan ka nawa ng Dios sa lahat ng araw mo, Hariell anak. mahal ka namin ng tatay mo.


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